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I'm thinking about getting some aftermarket 17s. Anyone get spacers for their new wheels? If so is their an offset you'd recommend?

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The lowest offset I was ever able to run was +29 (in the back). I would say get some 18x8.5 and run a +28 (or higher) in the back, and do an 18x8.5 +40 or higher in the front.

You will need to roll the fenders in the rear in order to accomodate wheels of that stature