IS250_6Spd

whoa some drama

ApoK

Definitely put your kids first. If you choose to fight and get angry around them, then you're no better than your cheating, lying, sack-of-**** husband. You need to end these things civilly, or you risk ruining the lives of your children. As was previously mentioned, you should consider selling the car and splitting the money. Otherwise, it would make a lot more sense to just have the divorce finalized and then split up your assets in a judicious manner.

Also, this seems like a very personal topic and I'm not sure why you'd post on CL. At this time, you should be sticking with your closest friends and your children IMHO. Best of luck.

panda327

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i think he wants to fight the car over with u becuz its probably the only thing u 2 can share .... well maybe the kids ..
he probably doesn't want to disconnect from u completely so he said the car is worth fighting over

BucBaby

Thanks for all the support guys. I am doing much better since I decided to just be me again. Truthfully, I haven't been doing that much arguing. My husband was always a good guy until now, and I had a great marriage. Now he can be kind and switch to mean in a second. I am there for the kids, and I don't fight back. I carefully weigh my decisions and then tell him what I want. I wanted your advice about the car.

I'm sorry if I offended anyone by posting my story, but this is about love....love of a car! I didn't want to loose another thing I love!

hihi410

IMO, fight for what you deserve.

He has committed an adultery, at some places can face legal consequences.

Although i do agree that car isn't the important thing here, you can always buy another.

Focusing on child support, alimony and any assets that belongs to you. If your children are teens, this means that if you have the custody, you could receive child support until they are 18, and in some cases until they are done with college.

Divorce can be a very stressful situation to you and your kids, focus on what you deserve and be happy with it.

Good luck.

ExTrEmE99

iTrader: (6)

Wow i remember reading about all your problems trying to allocate your PERFECT IS! and the post when you finally got it.


make him buy the IS off you and get another one (better,faster,stronger)

Good luck with everything!


Sorry, i dont really have anything productive to post about

Byprodrive

iTrader: (1)

Sounds like this is the car she wants & deserves, he is free to leave but not take whatever he wants away from the family. I always respect my Mom for never saying anything bad about her childrens father.

crazybuggy

keep the iS... and stay strong!

Little E

iTrader: (2)

Marriage is sooo overrated. Good luck! I hope you get to keep the car you love.

iialcii

iTrader: (3)

sorry to hear of the problems. But if u love the car soo much and want it. Fight for it! Its urs! Good Luck with everything

kickin8

iTrader: (1)

sorry to hear that...

But still....you should keep your IS!

slee18

iTrader: (1)

I remember that too! It sounded like child birth! I hope everything ends up good for you. I would sell him the car because new girl might have put coddies in it.

Stay Strong!

go blue 99

Why? An anonymous message board can be a good place to get unbiased advice.