What to do??
05-22-12, 06:10 PM
#16
since we're getting all serious. I have my fiancee who is not a modification fan
One thing you'll come to find out is there's no logical way to make her understand. Promise you that
Your best shot is to let her know it's a hobby that you enjoy, and pray that she doesnt hit you with the "buying shoes/purses is her hobby"
doesnt work out
One thing you'll come to find out is there's no logical way to make her understand. Promise you that
Your best shot is to let her know it's a hobby that you enjoy, and pray that she doesnt hit you with the "buying shoes/purses is her hobby"
doesnt work out
05-22-12, 06:12 PM
#17
If your significant other knows a lot about cars, why would she think i.e. putting on a set of aftermarket sway bars not improve overall handling performance of the car? Sure it might seem like a waste of money to her, and some mods are just for looks, but there is a performance upgrade with aftermarket sway bars. She should know what what you're doing will hopefully 1. improve performance of the car 2. improve the "overall look" of the car 3. its a lifestyle aka hobby. Does the significant other have a modded car?
05-22-12, 06:55 PM
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it was my gf who told me to get air~ her reasoning, if i have to drive your car do you want me driving it so low?... so when i went and took out 4k and told her it was just for the down, she was all 'JUST THE DOWN???' so i was like yea baby cant have you playing with switches so i need the E-level
05-22-12, 08:19 PM
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since we're getting all serious. I have my fiancee who is not a modification fan
One thing you'll come to find out is there's no logical way to make her understand. Promise you that
Your best shot is to let her know it's a hobby that you enjoy, and pray that she doesnt hit you with the "buying shoes/purses is her hobby"
doesnt work out
One thing you'll come to find out is there's no logical way to make her understand. Promise you that
Your best shot is to let her know it's a hobby that you enjoy, and pray that she doesnt hit you with the "buying shoes/purses is her hobby"
doesnt work out
05-22-12, 08:25 PM
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Like initial g said it a lifestyle or hobby it's what u like to do ur not harming anyone by it. Remember a relationship is a compromise and she should understand that
05-22-12, 11:07 PM
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My wife and I have separate personal checking accounts on top of our joint accounts. We call them "Mad Money" accounts because the other person can't get mad when we buy something from those accounts. Ie. shoes for her and car stuff for me
05-23-12, 08:37 AM
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thats how I live my life too
05-23-12, 12:23 PM
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Yep, no money fights at all. If I want something, I just use my "Mad Money" account and she can't say anything about it. The only time she has complained is when it affects her too. For instance, I wanted to by a quad and she was complaining about it taking up too much space in the garage.