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Nothing is more effective that whipping out the repair manual to settle an argument.
Maybe print the list of customizable features that has been posted on this forum many times and take it with you to the Lexus dealership. That's what I have done.
oops. i just re-read the thread. i thought the OP had gone back to the dealer a couple times & asked them to do it & was told the same time a couple times.