Here is where the male is supposed to be, but is missing. The part is on the way. Does anybody have a diagram or picture on how the wires are supposed to be oriented? I could figure out where the red, blue, and light blue go, but there are 2 black wires, and a white wire on the male end. And on the female end there are 2 white wires and one black wire, plus the the other 3 wires that are same.